'Jewelry' at resorts and beaches

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 18, 2018

  FreeLee, I'm with you on your thoughts.
  Go ahead and do whatever you want as long as it doesn't affect me.
  Just don't go and tell me what I can and can't do.
  If you don't like the babe with the big plastic boobs, don't sit next to her. If the dude
  has too many rings in his dick to suit you, move down a bit more. If the couple has too
  many tattoos then just find another spot to hang out.
  
  Some of these people need to lighten up on the caffeine or switch to de-cafe!
  
  Later,

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 18, 2018

  I think it takes a little more than some jewelry to turn a resort or beach into a swingers club!
  Later,

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 19, 2018

  Does not nudism/naturalism also mean accepting others as they are?

  For me, I prefer to be naked. Also in terms of jewelry. Only the wedding ring I never pull off.

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• KE

  

  keplerorg

  Jun 20, 2018

  I recommend just doing what you want and ignore the social stigmas of what to do or not in a nudist beach.

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 21, 2018

  What does the current discussion have to do with the title of this topic? What has swinger clubs and sexual acts to do with it?

  Is not that a prejudice to people who wears jewelry?

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• GE

  

  Gerald

  Jun 27, 2018

  Genital jewellery isnt very common in NZ as far as I know. Perhaps more common in the gay community than in general.

  I can only recall several examples, one large Prince Albert piercing, several women with clitorial rings, and, slightly outside this topic, a penis tattoo, all at a naturist club.

  There was a debate five years ago in the Naturist community about rings, etc. There was a strong feeling expressed that those wearing jewellery were not truly naked. The letters printed in 'Gonatural' were quite astonishing and I thought very conservative. I would feel it is up to the individual really just as shaving body hair is treated. On that last point it is rare today to see naturist club members with pubic hair. Curiously no one shaves their head.

  One thing about the Prince Albert, though I suppose you are not supposed to pay attention to this kind of detail, is that it was actually quite becoming and suited his penis.

  Interestingly at various hippie events where there is common nudity, such as Kiwiburn, and rainbow gatherings, I have yet to see any jewellery being worn by males. Occasionally you will see women with genitial piercings and or shaved. Those attending these events are generally in the 25-40 bracket, so it may be an age question. At the last Kiwiburn in January this year some 1100 took part on the naked run around the remains of the effigy: I saw no examples of jewellery and no instances of shaving . At the rainbow held some weeks before, there were a number of participants casually naked during the course of the day and again none were shaved and none wore jewellery.

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• JO

  

  John

  Jun 30, 2018

  I have a PA.I like It.I don't really care if anyone else does.I don't shave my body. I shave my head because after 70 years there isn't much there.I am very laid back and very accepting of other people and what they like or dislike.If you don't like it don't look. Little Johnny won't be traumatized for life because He saw It. For Gods sake he just saw a hot woman walk by naked. If he wants to know why tell him I have it because I like it or she doesn't like to wear anything. I would be more upset telling him why someone would go into a school and kill kids for nothing.If my PA is the most awful thing he sees in his young life then God bless him .

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Jul 1, 2018

  [quote]what would you think if your wife / girlfriend walked around nude with her stomach painted with the words "inset dick here " and an arrow pointing between her legs ? after all its just art right ? we all know better than that , just like we all know whats on the mind of a man that walks around with his decorated dick[/quote] No, you don't. First of all, genital peicings have a variety of functions, aesthetics, sizing, and can be discrete or prominent. People peirce for many reasons. Exhibition is one of them. But not all who peirce do so to say 'screw me' (in fact, that is not the meaning of any of it, not even remotely). None of the genital peircings are for display only. They all serve a sensual or practical purpose. One, the PA is a military solution to equestrian issues and men's bodies. This is a wide cultural movement that draws on many cultures and has many facets. It's frustrating to see nudists blithely dumping an entire sector of folks as perverts when the same is done to us... out of ignorance I would add. Suggestions that a clitoral or labia peircing equates to an invitation to barely consentual sex (insert dick here) tattooed on a woman is repulsive and completely out of line. It's frankly misogynist. You'd have us believe that no one understands genital sex function unless jewelry? The genitals are already evolved to garner the attention of suitors. It's OK to not like the practice. It's OK to ask it be excluded from nudist space. It's not ok to make such unecessarily nasty claims without any care or concern. It's painfully obvious when a man or less frequently a woman is showing off. Swagger. Thrust. Swing. Leer. Touching. None of this is the result of genital jewelry. Those people came like that. If they are just moving through space and not doing a penile pantomime it's just metal on skin at the regular sizes. And finally with respect to penis adornments. No, not every penis accessory means my dick wants to party all the time. Every human culture has tattooed peirced modded implanted on penises. Once you get a penis peircing you need to leave it in or it heals over. Either folks are planning their perversion well in advance or perhaps it's just a part of the whole and no big deal. I also let women decide what to wear or not.

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Jul 1, 2018

  [quote]They both sound like walking wind chimes! :DDD and he swears he is not trying to attract attention...lol got to admit i am perplexed by the "ball stretchers " and to think we all thought the "pet rock " was dumb for the life of me i can't think of even one reason for them other than not wanting to walk around carrying a sign that reads "look at me i'm the dumbest smuck your ever going to see in your life time "[/quote] It was a bit of a silly question. Here's the thing. You can find out why people wear ball stretchers using the Internet. Your being unable to think of a reason isn't the standard by which reality is parsed. Thank dog. These are first and foremost medical devices solving actual medical issues. People modify and invent from existing things, new things. It's a thing guys enjoy. Don't worry about it unless you screw up your scrotum. Then be sure to not wear the device you have no idea what it's for. We told this guy already it had no place on the beach. Your attitude does nothing to curb behaviour. It inflames and insults. Is it possible for you to offer an opinion that is supportive and exemplary or must it be filled with derision and scorn? I imagine being this righteous must be a real chore.

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Jul 1, 2018

  [quote]i did an web search for "ball stretcher" just to find out what the hell they are : the next time anyone says that its not sexual , just read the 1st sentence instead of calling them "ball stretchers" i think i'll just call them moron identifiers ( it just seems to fit better ) Ball Stretcher Definition - What does Ball Stretcher mean? A ball stretcher is a male sex toy that is used to stretch and elongate the scrotum. These devices are meant to wrap around the base of the scrotum and may come with attached cock rings. Ball stretchers may be made from materials like leather, metal or silicone, and they vary in size and by how far they stretch the scrotum. Some ball stretchers also act as weights, and some have rings to which weight may be attached. Although ball stretchers are sometimes used during cock-and-ball torture scenes, many men also find the sensation of having their testicles gently pulled away from the body very pleasurable. Regularly using ball stretchers can also permanently elongate the scrotum, and these sick puppies want to wear them in our resorts ? HELL NO !!! Ladys when you see these things in a nudist resort , don't get up and walk out of the resort , get up and RUN out of the resort these aren't just sex toys , they are very weird /sick sex toys[/quote] Oh good lord. Really. Do you want us to burn the fellow in effigy or will the Scarlet Letter suffice? Apparently you've found just enough internet to go on a bully tear of unnecessary hatred. Nudists and naturists more than almost any other social group should be aware of the effects of deeply hurtful rhetoric around perversion sexual deviance and sickness. It's not on to sling that casually about because you feel the need to justify judgmental rage. You are old enough to remember how we were persecuted using these lies. Sex toys and mod devices have a medical background more often than not. Scrotal elongation, urethral dilation, speculums, plugs, catheters, subscisions and so on may not appeal but they all come from gynecology urology and proctology. Next you'll be telling us modern medicine is a sickness. The dude asked a bad question and is not really in the loop. Thats enough. Reading this bile turns anyone new off naturism hardcore.

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Jul 2, 2018

  [quote]Honestly I think genital jewelry would be inappropriate in a nudist setting as it draws attention to "sexual parts" However Jewelry such as earrings and lip piercings are cool. I rarely wear jewelry unless its a ring or something I know is hard to get lost, but I guess depends on rules and regulations of the resort.[/quote] i've already said genital jewelry is problematic and that clubs can enforce a code about such and are justified. But the idea that genital peircings are sexualized but genitals alone not and then lip peircings not and ears not bears scrutiny. The history of the earring and earring design is bound up in courtesanship, prostitution, the hareem, ladies of leisure and so on. The history of peirced ears is a history of the sexualization of the face along with makeup and lipstick. Lip peirings are designed to bring the tongue out playfully. It's sexual in origin.

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 13, 2018

  I really have no opinion on this since I don't care what people do to their bodies and it's not my business. But I saw this today and had to post it. Guess I relate at my age I suppose.

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 13, 2018

  gosh same here do not why some people get so bent out of shape over jewelry ! too each its own long as we naked at a resort we not care what others do we just enjoy ourselves

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• ME

  

  Mr. E

  Jul 22, 2018

  A friend of mine joined the local nude resort. I told her about some of the characters there and so I told her about the guy with several piercings in his scrotum. Seriously, it sounds like some cowboy walking around with spurs when he walks. She thought I was exaggerating.

  So, one day, the two of us are by the pool. I hear the ring and chunk of the guys jewelry. She said Im not going to look! Im not going to look!

  I know that some resorts are edgy about body jewelry. I get why to a small extent, since some of it (like the guy above) seems to be a bit exhibitionist: look at my cock! When I first started exploring nudism online, I noticed a lot of conversations about tattoos and clubs that banned members with them. I dont hear that tattoo conversation any more, but I wonder how many younger people that kept out of the resorts.

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• KA

  

  Kwatsi Alibaruho

  Oct 22, 2018

  Amen.

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• ME

  Member

  Dec 2, 2018

  Maybe people with tattoos shouldn't be allowed, to flash their paint.

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• JO

  

  John

  Dec 3, 2018

  I find many tattoos and body piercings quite revolting and would never have them myself but then I also shudder at some of the clothing, piercings and tattoos that i see in the street.
  in neither case can I see a valid reason to ban them.

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• ME

  Member

  Dec 6, 2018

  So simple, Jewelry is to accentuate, any Naturist or "Nudist" who wears that shit, is a pervert just posing as a Naturist. There's no reason to wear anything on your dick. This is why it's so hard to clean out the people who are in the philosophy for the wrong reasons.

  If you are here to"

  1. Be seen naked
  2. See naked people
  3. Be around young naked people

  You are soon to be caught by your won stupidity.

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• EA

  

  EarlD

  Dec 7, 2018

  Agree with your opinion

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• FL

  

  flsmoothie

  Dec 10, 2018

  The same argument about jewelry drawing attention to genitals can be made about pubic grooming. Yet, it has become universally acceptable in nudist circles as far as I know.

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• SA

  Sam

  Dec 10, 2018

  Annie of "SamAndAnnie" here:Genital Jewelry! HeHeHeHeHeGiggle- Stuuupid! Why not have that little thing tattooed "Look Here" "See my peepee!" Pathetic!

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• ME

  Member

  Dec 11, 2018

  wow everyone has a opinion about this topic but as nudists we need educate no need for calling one a pervert or stupid, lets keep it civil , yes agree some post are over the top of limits , but us nudists should educate not scold !!!

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Dec 20, 2018

  [quote]what would you think if your wife / girlfriend walked around nude with her stomach painted with the words "inset dick here " and an arrow pointing between her legs ? after all its just art right ? we all know better than that , just like we all know whats on the mind of a man that walks around with his decorated dick[/quote] I just have to respond to this. Women and men don't need signs because evolution and natural selection gave us the attributes we needed to successfully reproduce. A whole wackload of 'signs' telling us where things are supposed to go. Since the natural features of a woman's anatomy are already selected for "please insert here", the addition of a non-selected for ornament isn't really changing the biological reality and it would be quite foolish to think so. It's well and good to have standards for naturist resorts and I agree with those standards, but so many of you here think this gives you universal license to condemn other people and other cultures for no good reason. It doesn't make your point stronger, I doesn't convince anyone the rules are somehow now more just, it just comes off as mean. The argument that expresses sexuality and moreover immoral sexuality because clothing or jewelry is a tired one. Human beings across time and space have decorated their bodies, for many reasons. Our cousins, the Mandrills come decorated. Tribes in New Guinea still wear penis sheaths, Jews and Muslims and some Christians circumcise (this operation is aesthetic and about drawing attention to the penis), and there was a market for pastel merkins or pubic wigs in 18th century France. To assert that all men who adorn themselves must be deviants as are all women is unproven. To finish, a woman wouldn't wear that inscription in public. Nobody would. Largely, the attractors are built in. If you ever see a woman with this written on her, think to call the police.

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Dec 20, 2018

  Do these people get out of the pool before ejaculation? Does the guy say "wait, I'm about to cum, lets get out and go to the room to finish? I bring this up because YOU stated you and your wife visited that resort in Jamaica and sexual activity was happening. Did this not cross your minds or were you oblivious to this might taking place or did you not care? I agree with you and with FreeLee; resorts and clubs make up their own rules and if my wife and I minded seeing genital jewelry or excessive genital jewelry that much, we'd not attend those venues but as I stated, in some way, it's not for us and some of it is excessive but that's there choice and some of those people are actually nice people. Live and let live only goes so far in some cases and that's why many of the resorts and clubs have rules and standards so ALL can feel comfortable. Piercings and tattoos are one thing but sexual activity crosses the line in most cases because we are sharing the same spaces and we don't want to share everyone's bodily fluids. There really needs to be some tact, manners, respect and decorum even at nudist venues. Apologies I know this went off topic but would like to know your thoughts. Maybe I'll start another thread.[/quote] You know, we rarely agree for a variety of reasons but this is a decent set of questions to be asked, and it is what many organizations, not just hotels have to deal with openly and frankly because this stuff doesn't fix itself. If a space is naturist and there is no sex allowed in public, that is the core clientele. A shift away from that risks a lot. These ideas usually come from some vague idea that "sex sells" which is true, but to whom? Is this a romantic titillating add on for couples or singles or is it just poorly thought out? The questions about activity are valid. Commercial pools can kill all the commonly transmittable STI's instantly except Hep C. Urine isn't a health risk, but the added fluids to make for unpleasant potential. The pool is a big draw at the resort, but it makes money on booze sales. There is a temptation to think sexing it up will increase sales, but that is only true if the sales surpass the attrition because most guests don't want that atmosphere. As for dirty surfaces soiled by sex, never stay in any hotel ever again , you will be horrified to know just how dirty they are. If the resort must do this, my advice is to separate the space from the rest of the resort, give it a separate entrance that you must exit with clothing on, walk and then go in, with a clothes check, cover charge and designated and non designated areas, theme parties, and lots of cleaners and carefully planned sight lines with no dark corners or areas that are isolated. Not tolerating intoxication, making sure condoms and lube are supplied and do not let guests bring locals. Currently, Toronto has one small establishment for this type of event and it is 20$ for women and I think 70 $ for men. There is a pool and they have trouble maintaining it as it is a lot of work. I have not been and will likely not ever go.

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