Hi there,
I have been nudist for some time now and recently been wearing a ball stretcher.
Although I find it a pleasure to wear, I haven't seen much nudist wearing 'jewellery' at resorts or beaches.
The only place I have seen cockering was at Chargo del Plato.
Is this been frowned upon when wearing it at the beaches or resorts?
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ChrisJun 5, 2018On beaches in Europe is arent these mostly no problem. In Cap dAgde is wearing juwels no problem, exept on campground Oltra. Cockrings are not allowed.
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WillJun 5, 2018I wear a cock ring from time to time at San Onofre beach. I have seen some wearing jewelry but most do not. Whether frowned upon or not I do not care. I wear it because I like it. I dont wear it for sexual reasons. I dont even wear it during sex. I have had a few people comment on my rings (I have 2 different kinds) though but never sexual. Hell I am wearing one of them now and I am at work.
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Tom === Thomas S. TierneyJun 14, 2018Genesis 1:27 - " So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them." Of course, In the eyes of many, He did not do a good job, males and females need more holes in them with silly little ornaments hanging from them. And Gods Image needs many colored childish drawings covering up His flawed creation. And Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do."ReactReply - OL
OllyJun 14, 2018I have piercings- 2 through each nipple and three in my genitals. According to funcouple I'm an idiot. So be it. I happen to like them (they ARE fun). Unlike cock rings, ball stretchers etc. it is not advised to remove them as the hole (the piercing) closes up. OK they may draw attention to my nipples and genitals but in a passive way. I don't push it. I will answer occasional questions when they are asked. And, frankly, I have never had an adverse reaction. BTW I have none in my ears though many people would think that is normal, especially in women.
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PeterJun 14, 2018So do earings draw attention to ears or tongue studs draw attention to tongues?! Each to his own. I don't think it's for me but I do like to see people express their individuality in whatever way they wish. Not sure why children who are comfortable with naturism should be "protected" from this, it's all part of life's rich tapestry.
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Maybe some other timeJun 14, 2018[quote]So do earings draw attention to ears or tongue studs draw attention to tongues?! Each to his own. I don't think it's for me but I do like to see people express their individuality in whatever way they wish. Not sure why children who are comfortable with naturism should be "protected" from this, it's all part of life's rich tapestry.[/quote] Depends on the earrings and the goal of the person wearing them. Subtle earrings are nice. but we have seen a few that scream "look at me, not the person wearing me". Tongue studs make me look to see if there are chipped teeth. but again, if the person wearing them like it, who am i to judgeReactReply - T=
Tom === Thomas S. TierneyJun 14, 2018[quote]any man that in anyway decorates his dick or makes it the center of attention and says its not sexual is doing just one thing pissing on your foot and telling you its raining !!![/quote][LIKE]ReactReply - T=
Tom === Thomas S. TierneyJun 14, 2018[quote]all genital jewelry says to me is ...look at me I'm an idiot !!![/quote][LIKE]ReactReply - MA
ManOfWicklowJun 14, 2018[quote]any man that in anyway decorates his dick or makes it the center of attention and says its not sexual is doing just one thing pissing on your foot and telling you its raining !!![/quote]Totally Agree with you.ReactReply - DD
Dancin' Dan (prone to dance)Jun 15, 2018well said. I think you are right on! while stating the obvious in a much more colorful way then I could have imagined. thank you.
from my own time on TN, it seems many members are here for a place to simply exhibit themselves. it's shown in their profiles pictures, words, and their own media files. that's the payback for being a nudist, for them, is so that people will look at them.
a duck is a duck . . .ReactReply - DD
Dancin' Dan (prone to dance)Jun 15, 2018here is a life principle I live by: "you cannot NOT communicate".
so when someone wears (or not ) genital jewelry, they ARE communicating something to the world, about themselves, PERIOD - NO EXCEPTIONS.
the adorned think they are communicating 1 message, re the significance they have assigned to the act. that's fair.
it is equally fair to acknowledge that the viewer may assign a completely different significance.
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ManOfWicklowJun 15, 2018[quote] hey if your at a swingers resort , hell put a sign around your neck that says " i'm horny please please go to bed with me " i have no problems with it if your that desperate and pathetic BUT NOT IN A SOCIAL NUDIST RESORT .... besides it make's you look like a creep !!!![/quote]DittoReactReply - MC
McdcvsJun 15, 2018So far I have not "noticed" any genital jewelry at the places we have visited. There may have been some but not screaming "look at me". I personally don't mind jewelry or tattoos, seen a lot of those. I don't have any adornments, my wife has a few holes in her ears and wears ankle bracelets and toe rings. Our kids on the other hand are full of tattoos. I don't know about any other piercings.
My thought is that people do want to show their jewelry off. What better place to show off your piercings or body art than at a place where nudity is accepted. You go through all this trouble to get adorned and only the artist get to see the full piece. Like 20 years ago when women started wearing thong underwear and lacy bra's, they were wearing them but know one knew so they starting pulling them above their jeans and wearing tops that revealed the edged of the bra. Then the low rise jeans were all the rage so that your thong showed without having to pull them up.
When nude around others, I look in the persons face. I only see their bodies from a distance and I usually don't look down but if someone is wearing jewelry or has artwork that covers their body I will probably look but I think that is what they want.
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McdcvsJun 15, 2018My wife would say that people waling around naked screams "I want sex" as does most of the textile world. We are freaks because we as nudist go against social norms. I will admit that in my younger days, seeing a naked body was all about sex. If we are to say that we as nudist are able to see a naked woman or mans body and not believe it is a sexual thing, we should be able to accept those who chose to decorate themselves.
Calling people who chose to decorate their bodies Stupid or Perverted alienates several societies where that is the norm. Hawaiian, African, Indian cultures to name a few use, tattooing and piercings as part of society status and rituals. Unless it is genital mutilation that also happens in some of these societies as well, I don't judge them.
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MaryanneJun 15, 2018[quote]To be honest the last thing I want to do is have sex with older people at nudist resorts that are twice my age.[/quote] Wait a minute! So ... you think someone wants to have sex with you??? Please rethink your objectives.ReactReply - MA
ManOfWicklowJun 15, 2018[quote]all genital jewelry says to me is ...look at me I'm an idiot !!![/quote]Yes funcouple, I and most other normal nudists are of the same opinion.ReactReply - JO
JohnJun 15, 2018To me shaving all your body hair off is saying look at me.So what is the difference.The kids can see your genitals better. What do the parents tell their kids
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good reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Maybe some other timeJun 15, 2018[quote] I/we just wonder what the purpose is for male genital jewelry. Ball stretchers???, Cockrings?, Penislettes (bracelets that go around the head of a guys dick), Prince Alberts, multiple ring piercings on the scrotum. Just wonder what they are for? Is it increase sexual arousal or feelings? [/quote] We've seen a few guys with multiple rings. They actually make noise when the person walks. i have to believe in some cases, it works much like putting a bell on a cat. To alert prey they are lurking near by. And in some cases, that would be an accurate statement. not saying it applies to all men with piercings...ReactReply - NU
NudeJohnnyJun 15, 2018[quote]a true nudist would not post a picture from that angle with his legs spread in such a manner as to make his genitals the focus of attentionyou have some NEED for attention that would take Dr.Phil to explain .....i can'ta true nudist has no need or desire to hide nor flaunt his genitals YOU DO !!saying "just don't look " is kinda like saying don't look when you see two trains heading toward each other , you might not want to see them hitbut you can't not look at such horrorput another way , you can't not look at GREEN hair . no matter how weird you think it isthey are just screaming for attention and if they have to be weird to get that attention then thats what they will doenough said !!![/quote]
Sorry NakedTomm,
Gotta agree with funcouple1956. Your smile would have been the same if you had crossed your legs. Having your peewee pushed forward while you do a man spread screams "Look at me" -- "Look at me"ReactReply - MEMemberJun 16, 2018
Im with you, Tom. I agree - youre smile is infectious. This whole string saddens me. I have always felt nudists were some of the least judgemental people Ive met, and yet the posts on this subject prove that to be wrong. How about we build one another up, rather than tear one another down... what a radical idea!
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ManOfWicklowJun 16, 2018[quote] The older I get, the lower my scrotum hangs not sure why the hell I'd want to purposely stretch my scrotum. I gotta be careful not to sit on them nowadays! :DDDDDDD[/quote] Ouch!!! LMSOReactReply - JO
JohnJun 16, 2018AMEN!
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smoothbearJun 18, 2018[quote]On the other hand I find it exciting when a woman has a Little secret down there. Ahhhh down where? Come on man! Are you afraid to say vagina/pussy, labia menora/majora, clitoris . This is an adult website. ;-)[/quote] I simply didnt want to appear rude even though we are in an adult forum.ReactReply
