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BornAgainOriginal Poster
May 25, 2013I wonder at times if tn is a nudist sight or a porn sight. Why are pictures allowed that the rules clearly state are unacceptable? Do we need more moderators? I volunteer to help with pictures if this is the problem. And I hear a lot of hub-bub about photos of men and erections but I've yet to find anyone complain about women that pose while dressed seductively and/ or in provocative positions, obviously there is a double standard. I am sick of our sex saturated society and hate that it's so soaked with it here. Is this a breeding ground for sickness or a place of health and wellness? I desire tn to be the latter and will do all within my power to make it so. Let's not cheapen nudism fellow nudists.
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ManOfWicklowMay 26, 2013[quote]1LOVE, all you can do is what Kouak and I do ... flag the offender and hope for the best. It's anyone's quess what rules are allowed and not allowed to be broken. I've had this discussion before, years ago, and the answer was contradictory to what the policy was ... so we just have to "flag" these pictures and comments and see what happens. There are FAR MORE members here standing right beside you on this than you know. We're all kinda tired of it. Keep the faith our friend! :D[/quote]DittoReactReply - FF
FF32404May 26, 2013Hi 1,
Just to clarify, the only part of TN that has moderators is the chat room who are charged to deal with direct harassment of other chatters, breaking of cam rules and so on. The rest of TN are moderated by the owners only. So the only recourse is to flag offending profiles like everyone is saying here. Keep in mind that it is very probable that for every person that gets removed, 10 more new sickos join (I don't know the full ratio, but it seems like a lot) At this point, I would be surprised if more than half of the profiles here are fake or misleading and there seems to be a bunch that still don't get that the other site "True Swingers" was created to try to pull some of the people looking for sex off of TN but I think many of them just use both sites. This is also why a lot of people have made suggestions to require certification as one good step in the right direction. I don't have nude pictures of me on my profile, but I am certified, and I cam up regularly in the chat room. If chatters themselves are not good with them, oh well, but no one can say that I'm not real. I think certification works.ReactReply - MEMemberMay 26, 2013
I for one am sick to death of flagging profile pics that contravene the TOS.....but hey all we can do is keep on keeping on.....the more we flag them the better it is :) And yes there are so many female profile pics that are just totally wrong!!! It is not always the males.
ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterMay 26, 2013[quote]I for one am sick to death of flagging profile pics that contravene the TOS.....but hey all we can do is keep on keeping on.....the more we flag them the better it is :) And yes there are so many female profile pics that are just totally wrong!!! It is not always the males.[/quote]Me too Jackie! In my experience flagging does not seem to be effective, either has trying to contact the owners that allow the more pornographic pics. Thank you for acknowledging and confirming my thoughts. I'm glad I'm not the only one.
I do appreciate all the input my friends and fellow true nudists. I've come to find pleasure with some really wonderful people on here and appreciate you all... for now I will keep the good and there is much good on tn, people, info..., leave the rest, and ENJOY my true nudist friends on here, the good information and tools.
Does anyone know of a good naturalist website? Maybe that would be a better fit, for as for me it's not just about being nude, it's a state of being far above sexuality.
Naturally naturalistic and learning to live, love, embrace, each moment given...ReactReply - CD
Cheri Donna DawsonMay 26, 2013[quote]I for one am sick to death of flagging profile pics that contravene the TOS.....but hey all we can do is keep on keeping on.....the more we flag them the better it is :) And yes there are so many female profile pics that are just totally wrong!!! It is not always the males.[/quote]Definitely feel the same.ReactReply - MEMemberMay 26, 2013
It's a battle that will never end, and has been going for quite a long time.
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SoupieMay 26, 2013Certification is certainly a step in the right direction. Anyone who is on here for a period of time and won't do it is immediately suspect as to their intent and motivations.
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renebbareMay 26, 2013I too have always thought certification a worthwhile requirement, but until this site recognises quality above quantity, we will get nowhere.However, my profile is blocked by some members here, who I would say, are dubious in their true motives on nudism. Sadly most are certified, so I only see certification as one method of weeding out a few of the rotten apples. Still it would be good to start somewhere!
Long ago I stated I would not be renewing my paid membership until something was done to bring the 'true' back into truenudists there has been nothing in the past 3-4yrs to change my mind.ReactReply - DE
DesertRatMay 27, 2013I flag the new stuff when it pops up but I stopped calling out the old stuff. One old timer, who knows how to play the game, blocked me from seeing her profile because I flagged her spread eagle pics. All of the pics are still there, but now I can't see them so there is nothing for me to complain about.ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterMay 29, 2013[quote]erections are part of life and men should be glad to have one but not on a web site like tis and seductive pictures of femails should also not be aloud [/quote]Agreed.ReactReply
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to_be_cloths_freeJun 14, 2013[quote]I flag the new stuff when it pops up but I stopped calling out the old stuff. One old timer, who knows how to play the game, blocked me from seeing her profile because I flagged her spread eagle pics. All of the pics are still there, but now I can't see them so there is nothing for me to complain about.[/quote]
So how dose the person know you have flagged her as I can't find any way to see who has viewed me. So it is so sounds like an insider job.
If you only want sex there are plenty of other sites who are called "nudist sites" which are sex sites to go on and I will not go onto that type of site.ReactReply - RErenebbareJun 14, 2013[quote][quote]I flag the new stuff when it pops up but I stopped calling out the old stuff. One old timer, who knows how to play the game, blocked me from seeing her profile because I flagged her spread eagle pics. All of the pics are still there, but now I can't see them so there is nothing for me to complain about.[/quote]
So how dose the person know you have flagged her as I can't find any way to see who has viewed me. So it is so sounds like an insider job.
If you only want sex there are plenty of other sites who are called "nudist sites" which are sex sites to go on and I will not go onto that type of site.[/quote]By speaking out against 'spread eagle' photos, you stand and are counted - and blocked from some profiles! It does not take 'insider' knowledge. And the said photos are stillnotof true nudist ideals.ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterJun 14, 2013[quote]Those pictures are what bring more and more voyeurs and pervs to a "paying" site. The more "payers" the more money is made for the site and the owners of the site. I've seen this on more "naturist/nudist" sites than I thought I would. Owners of nudist sites don't want to keep paying members away and because so many of these pervs are willing to pay a small annual fee or monthly fee ... they can make up a fake profile and begin making friends and collecting pictures. What I find funny is that many of these fakes (voyeurs and pervs) are making friends with "other" fakes that are taking pictures from other sites and posting them as their own. The issue is that these fakes, pervs, voyeurs are infiltrating a site that was meant for "true nudists" and this isn't what we are about and it gives many of us and our lifestyle a negative reputation. If Admin and the Owners were truly "true nudists" then they would be supportive of our concerns and deal with this issue and stop the fakes, pervs and voyeurs ... but that's cutting off their $$$ flow. Probably won't happen. :([/quote]So wrong my friend. So unfortunately sex IS sold on tn. Very unfortunate. That's why all my nude pics to certified friends only and I try to choose my "friends" on here wisely. Please let me know if I have been misguided as you know more people on there than I.ReactReply
- BOBornAgainOriginal PosterJul 19, 2013[quote]I will 1Love. If and when I come across them ... I'll be sure to let you know. : )[/quote]thank you A&D~!ReactReply
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martindebbieAug 11, 2013[quote]Certification is certainly a step in the right direction. Anyone who is on here for a period of time and won't do it is immediately suspect as to their intent and motivations.[/quote]Or maybe their lack of computer skills... both my wife and I have pretty good computer skills, but not everyone has, so please be aware of the help that others may need :-)ReactReply - MAmartindebbieAug 11, 2013One thing that strikes me as odd..... if we are true nudists, then why do we need the photo's in the first place ???
Iv'e been told by one woman, (the profile said woman anyway) that without a photo she won't even bother talking to me ! As above anyone can make a profile to fit anything they want to so how many woman are actually guys "playing the part" ? how will photo's help ? as a photo or so can be "lifted" from loads of sites, how will certification help, will it help ?ReactReply - RErenebbareAug 11, 2013
Certification helps by showing you are who you say you are, nothing more.
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If sex is for sale here??................................Where is the price list????
ReactReply - MAManOfWicklowAug 12, 2013[quote]If sex is for sale here??................................Where is the price list????[/quote]AND, do certified members qualify for a discount ?ReactReply
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Tom === Thomas S. TierneyAug 12, 2013Sorry, I'm not for sale.ReactReply - MAManOfWicklowAug 12, 2013Most women on here cannot afford my prices.ReactReply
- T=Tom === Thomas S. TierneyAug 12, 2013So, you are for sale!ReactReply
- RErenebbareAug 12, 2013
Summer sales shopping spree!!!
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JohnAug 12, 2013For rent (long or short term)
Fully functional, Mostly programmable*, Anatomically-correct male.
*Sometimes does not understand commands such as "Take out the garbage". May malfunction upon hearing "My mother is coming to visit".
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