Sex sold on Truenudists? — Sex and Sexuality on True Nudists

BornAgainOriginal Poster

May 25, 2013

I wonder at times if tn is a nudist sight or a porn sight. Why are pictures allowed that the rules clearly state are unacceptable? Do we need more moderators? I volunteer to help with pictures if this is the problem. And I hear a lot of hub-bub about photos of men and erections but I've yet to find anyone complain about women that pose while dressed seductively and/ or in provocative positions, obviously there is a double standard. I am sick of our sex saturated society and hate that it's so soaked with it here. Is this a breeding ground for sickness or a place of health and wellness? I desire tn to be the latter and will do all within my power to make it so. Let's not cheapen nudism fellow nudists.

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Member
Aug 12, 2013
[quote]I wonder at times if tn is a nudist sight or a porn sight. Why are pictures allowed that the rules clearly state are unacceptable? Do we need more moderators? I volunteer to help with pictures if this is the problem. And I hear a lot of hub-bub about photos of men and erections but I've yet to find anyone complain about women that pose while dressed seductively and/ or in provocative positions, obviously there is a double standard. I am sick of our sex saturated society and hate that it's so soaked with it here. Is this a breeding ground for sickness or a place of health and wellness? I desire tn to be the latter and will do all within my power to make it so. Let's not cheapen nudism fellow nudists.
[/quote]Amen.
And for those who think this is a place for porn and exhibitionism, please move onto another venue where you can 'improve' your performance while finding a much more receptive audience. Tumblr comes to mind. The few of you that I have seen over the years provide much more comic relief than you do titillation. You ain't that hot.
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NudeJohnny
Aug 12, 2013
I a'int selling it.
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renebbare
Aug 12, 2013
Oh come on, who was it said 'everyone has a price?'
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Aug 12, 2013
Had to be a politician.
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ManOfWicklow
Aug 12, 2013
All politicians have their price.
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sunnmaxx
Aug 15, 2013
If everybody does their part and some more mods would not hurt
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renebbare
Aug 16, 2013
[quote]If everybody does their part and some more mods would not hurt[/quote]Would only go as far as making the chatroom a better place.
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Aug 19, 2013
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Cheri Donna Dawson
Aug 31, 2013
I ignore those who have less than genuine profiles as well as those with unsavory posts and messages.

Lately, I've not had as much time available to answer messages or posts. This week, I'm making it a priority to do what I can to catch up.

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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Sep 7, 2013
[quote]^^^^^ a great defender of the site![/quote]:)
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Sep 7, 2013
[quote]Haha funny picture 1Love.
[/quote]I'm glad you enjoyed. I'm thinking that would be a great costume if I could only find melons large enough! :))
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ManOfWicklow
Sep 7, 2013
[quote][quote]Haha funny picture 1Love.
[/quote]I'm glad you enjoyed. I'm thinking that would be a great costume if I could only find melons large enough! :)) [/quote][img src="http://squathole.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/rowie-meers-498728901.jpg">
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Sep 10, 2013
Haha, MofW, bigger melons needed for this bod... I'm super sized in the best way! :)
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John
Sep 10, 2013
[quote]Those pictures are what bring more and more voyeurs and pervs to a "paying" site. The more "payers" the more money is made for the site and the owners of the site. I've seen this on more "naturist/nudist" sites than I thought I would. Owners of nudist sites don't want to keep paying members away and because so many of these pervs are willing to pay a small annual fee or monthly fee ... they can make up a fake profile and begin making friends and collecting pictures. What I find funny is that many of these fakes (voyeurs and pervs) are making friends with "other" fakes that are taking pictures from other sites and posting them as their own. The issue is that these fakes, pervs, voyeurs are infiltrating a site that was meant for "true nudists" and this isn't what we are about and it gives many of us and our lifestyle a negative reputation. If Admin and the Owners were truly "true nudists" then they would be supportive of our concerns and deal with this issue and stop the fakes, pervs and voyeurs ... but that's cutting off their $$$ flow. Probably won't happen. :([/quote]Totally agree.
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John
Sep 10, 2013
[quote]One thing that strikes me as odd..... if we are true nudists, then why do we need the photo's in the first place ???
br][/quote]I found this site when I was searching for any information I could find about where I could go to explore my life long interest in just being nude. There were tons of porn sites disguised as naturist sites. This one felt real enough to explore which I did. The rest is history.
The pictures of all the true nudists were extremely helpful to me to feel "normal" about wanting to be nude in all kinds of ways. I really enjoy seeing very loving couples enjoying life nude in many ways. It has been helpful to see all kinds of people from all over the world just comfortable with themselves nude and having fun. Pics of guys have also helped me get over the whole "inadequacy" thing that most guys might worry about (initially). Of course there are also some guys I will NEVER want to stand next to for a picture LOL.
Finally, the pictures give me a sense of playful and community. Why not. How can you take yourself and the world too seriously when you are nude?
So thank you one and all for posting the right pictures.
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aljef50
Sep 11, 2013
I was looking for the same thing as far as places I could go to explore my inner nudist...I'm not quite ready to stand naked in a crowd of people just yet (the whole inadequacy thing having been drilled into me basically since birth). But Im hoping that this site can help me overcome that.
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renebbare
Sep 12, 2013
Aljef one thing you will not find among truenudistsare references to any type of sexual inadequacy.
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Sep 12, 2013
[quote]I was looking for the same thing as far as places I could go to explore my inner nudist...I'm not quite ready to stand naked in a crowd of people just yet (the whole inadequacy thing having been drilled into me basically since birth). But Im hoping that this site can help me overcome that.[/quote]Thank you for sharing. One of the things I love about most naturist/nudist is their acceptance and even appreciation of their and other's bodies. We are in all shapes and sizes and that is beautiful to me! You are made wonderfully well too! I hope you come to know acceptance of yourself and welcome to the exploration... may you find many blessings in your search.
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John
Sep 12, 2013
[quote]I was looking for the same thing as far as places I could go to explore my inner nudist...I'm not quite ready to stand naked in a crowd of people just yet (the whole inadequacy thing having been drilled into me basically since birth). But Im hoping that this site can help me overcome that.[/quote]Exactly. It has helped me there completely. Of course it also helps that I'm a little wiser now and don't care about that as much.
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John
Sep 19, 2013
[quote]Sex is sold everywhere in society. As usual I can't give it away but I don't see anything objectionable. The gallery is used to entice paying customers to upgrade but I see far too many pictures and not enough people in real life.[/quote]Totally agree. I have been trying very hard to get folks in our area (see Delaware Valley Group) to interact and even get together but get little or no response. Lot's of pictures being shared which is fun and let's us see how others are finding ways to enjoy themselves but not much real connecting going on.
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Nov 18, 2013
[quote]It's a shame that some people can't respect or refuse to understand that nudism/naturism isn't about sex or anything perverse. It's about enjoying the Heavenly freedom to enjoy our natural beings.[/quote]right on!
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Nov 19, 2013
[quote]Of course it is. Sex and voyeurism, or the implication thereof, is the selling point of this site. Good grief, just look at the flash page of this site![/quote]It was a rhetorical question. Yep, pretty obvious.
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Steve
Dec 22, 2013
Nice piece of research. Thanks.
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overexposed
Jan 3, 2014
[quote]Certification is certainly a step in the right direction. Anyone who is on here for a period of time and won't do it is immediately suspect as to their intent and motivations.[/quote]well soupy..its been proven that certified nudists are much more pervy than non certified... there goes your suspect and motivation.. but you are gay and only here for hook ups with gay men.. are you certified?.. youre point of view just went down the toilet..

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