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Hubby wanting others to see Me Nude

Posted Oct 14, 2012

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lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster
Oct 14, 2012
Hii...


I just wanted to curiously ask something to the women also. Since its related to ladies as well.......

I am been married since 1 year now. I have nice n caring husband. He is more open to nudism as compared to myself. We do stay naked at home since we are the only ones at home.There is a question coming into my mind..

IS IT GOOD THOUGHT FOR MY HUBBY WANTING OTHER MALES / FEMALES SEE ME NAKED ???
iIs it just a bad thought of his mind thinking that it would be cool for letting me to be nude seen by other males or maybe females too if they like ????
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  • JO
    John
    John
    Sep 24, 2021
    LisaL5 wrote: [quote]My husband was the same way. At first it was you dont need to wear a bra when my buddies come over. Then no top, then just stay nude they are ok with us being nudist. I doubt him wanting his buddies to see my nude had anything to do with being home nudists. Especially with the evidence he showed. I think if you are ok being nude, go ahead. If the fact he wants you to turn them on you might want to have a conversation.[/quote] That. My wife probably wouldn't want to be seen nude, so it's a moot point for me. But if she did, it would be for her own reasons: comfort, the appreciation she would get from being looked at (and men ... particularly the ones who aren't nudists ... can't help looking at a nude woman without appreciating the sight), or extending an invitation for the friends to strip as well. But, as you said, it's all about consent. But if the guy wants you to give his buddies a sexual thrill and you're not into it, it is indeed something to have a talk about.
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  • CA
    caesar22002
    Feb 7, 2022

    In many ways, men see their wives as the "Peacock" of the relationship. Something wonderful....and something that you want others to see. We all lean in that direction sometimes, whether we realize it or not. Look at the wife's wedding ring VS the husband. It is much more elaborate. Everyone wants to look at a woman's engagement ring. No one really asks to see a man's wedding band. It is not a big deal.

    Many men also like the idea of their pretty wife, all dressed up, on their arm as they go out....Thus the term "arm candy." Some may not like that idea, but I think we can all accept that it happens. Some ladies like to be all dressed up, treated well, and out for an evening. And yes, realizing that they are getting glances from around the room.

    In this instance, it is taking all of this several steps further down the path. If you are both in a nudist setting, I think it is fairly common that husbands like to "show off" their wives. If it is in a non-nudist setting, then that is REALLY pushing the boundaries. As others have written, if you are comfortable....go for it. If not don't.

    But again, I think that thoughts like these are more common with husbands than many will admit.

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    John
    Feb 8, 2022

    I think it is a compliment for him to want you to be seen by other nudists.

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  • DL
    Doran Lister
    Doran Lister
    Apr 5, 2022
    [quote]I would be very happy if my husband wanted to show me off to other males or his friends. It means he is proud of his wife and he'd like to tell them he has such a lovely wife with a good body and he he own that body. Wouldn't that be hot and amazing to feel like we belong and someone treasure us.[/quote] I think there should still be a clear line between "being proud of a beautiful, nude wife"... and asking/wanting her to do something she'd not comfortable with. If I was having friends over, and my nudist wife was happily present and turned heads,of course I would be happy. She's my wife, I married her because she's awesome... any reasonable guy would be comfortable with that. But the original poster of this thread seemed, possibly, not enthused with the idea... or maybe it would be out of her comfort zone. Mind you, this could be just a misreading of that post since English isn't the person's first language. I think anything a couple does should be rooted in comfort and trust. If he likes her to be seen, and she likes to be seen... so be it. As some other have mentioned in this thread, it's not entirely about nudism... but that's OK too. Human nature is what it is, and if folks are happy doing something, then let 'em. :)
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    Sheila
    Sheila
    May 9, 2022

    It is a great thought. It means your hubby is proud of you and wants others to see you and admidre you also. You are a lucky woman.

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  • LU
    lucky12b
    lucky12b
    May 16, 2022

    I think it probably excites him a little to see others checking you out. You're his, and He's yours. So no big deal. Go with it, enjoy it!

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    EarlD
    EarlD
    May 16, 2022

    Despite some of the recent responses from men to this old post about being seen and husbands being excited and proud to show off spouses. That has nothing absolutely nothing to do with naturism or nudism for that matter.

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    Getm212
    Getm212
    Jul 21, 2022

    Husband has wanted me to do this for a long time now when we go anywhere Im the first one thats completely naked I love it he loves to show me off and I love to be shown off we have become full-time nudists As soon as I get off work I get completely naked go outside check out my garden water my plants my trees all the neighbors have seen me Ill be honest with you the wifes are pretty happy When my wife is outside their husbands are out cutting the grass trimming the bushes keeping the yards up in shape which they never did lol.

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    Getm212
    Getm212
    Jul 21, 2022

    Husband has wanted me to do this for a long time now when we go anywhere Im the first one thats completely naked I love it he loves to show me off and I love to be shown off we have become full-time nudists As soon as I get off work I get completely naked go outside check out my garden water my plants my trees all the neighbors have seen me Ill be honest with you the wifes are pretty happy When my wife is outside their husbands are out cutting the grass trimming the bushes keeping the yards up in shape which they never did lol.

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    Getm212
    Getm212
    Jul 21, 2022

    Husband has wanted me to do this for a long time now when we go anywhere Im the first one thats completely naked I love it he loves to show me off and I love to be shown off we have become full-time nudists As soon as I get off work I get completely naked go outside check out my garden water my plants my trees all the neighbors have seen me Ill be honest with you the wifes are pretty happy When my wife is outside their husbands are out cutting the grass trimming the bushes keeping the yards up in shape which they never did lol.

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  • ST
    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Jul 21, 2022
    [quote]Husband has wanted me to do this for a long time now when we go anywhere Im the first one thats completely naked I love it he loves to show me off and I love to be shown off we have become full-time nudists As soon as I get off work I get completely naked go outside check out my garden water my plants my trees all the neighbors have seen me Ill be honest with you the wifes are pretty happy When my wife is outside their husbands are out cutting the grass trimming the bushes keeping the yards up in shape which they never did lol.[/quote] I love it when a post changes gender half way through.
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  • GE
    Getm212
    Getm212
    Jul 21, 2022

    We both were typing our input when topic was done. If it bothers you move on .

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  • GE
    Getm212
    Getm212
    Jul 21, 2022

    We both were typing our input when topic was done. If it bothers you move on .

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  • ST
    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Jul 21, 2022
    [quote]We both were typing our input when topic was done. If it bothers you move on .[/quote] Not bothered, just amused.
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    Gary
    Gary
    Aug 5, 2022
    [quote]Husband has wanted me to do this for a long time now when we go anywhere Im the first one thats completely naked I love it he loves to show me off and I love to be shown off we have become full-time nudists As soon as I get off work I get completely naked go outside check out my garden water my plants my trees all the neighbors have seen me Ill be honest with you the wifes are pretty happy When my wife is outside their husbands are out cutting the grass trimming the bushes keeping the yards up in shape which they never did lol.[/quote] Before my ex turned into a nasty controling abusive person we had a pretty good marriage or so I thought and she used to love being naked and showing off and yes I loved other guys looking . We swung and had a great sex life . Then something changed , to this day I havnt really worked it out but she suddenly didnt want to be nude , didnt like the kids being nude and became very controlling and eventually abusive , especially toward me . I am getting off the subject , alot of husbands like other guys seeing their wives nude I suppose its a guy thing .
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  • DE
    debbie
    Aug 8, 2022

    mine, wants others to see my nude body too! i m shy, modest, introverted, an not into it. but i do think about it more and more. i wonder, if neighbors would "see" me differently.......my nude body. would they look at me, with lots of lust? fantasizing about me, sexually? fucking me? or, not? still thinking about going to a nude resort, with him.........but, think about going alone too!!! displaying my nude body, to a lot of nude men........strangers!!!
    i ve heard of, a lot of men, wanting to expose there woman's nude body. wondering why? is it to......" see what i ve got, and you don't"? or, wanting to tease other guys, with my nude body? do guys get arroused, seeing other men, strangers, staring at their nude bodies?

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  • LI
    Little_David
    Sep 20, 2022

    I loved seeing my wife naked on a nude beach. she has big tits and got a lot of attention. I liked when she was chatting with men with much bigger dicks than mine

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    Calidablue
    Calidablue
    Sep 26, 2022

    I love guys( and girls ) checking my gf out when she is nude. It shows how comfortable she has become.

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    Steve
    Steve
    Sep 27, 2022
    [quote]"I loved seeing my wife naked on a nude beach. she has big tits and got a lot of attention. I liked when she was chatting with men with much bigger dicks than mine"[/quote] Great to see her confidence!
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    Lisa
    Lisa
    Apr 6, 2023

    Hub does love it and so do I... Of course I am a nudist hostess & greeter at a few nudist/swingers places! So I am always seen nude!

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    dennis
    dennis
    Apr 7, 2023

    Doubt a world average increase of 2 degrees will.make a difference in a lifetime

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  • NU
    nudony
    nudony
    Apr 8, 2023
    [quote]Always, always put the personal view points and feelings of the person you want naked first long before your own. [/quote] Of course. When my wife and I settled on choosing a resort, it ended up being a "nude-mandatory" one. That was always my first choice; but I wanted to be sure she was comfortable with the idea of being naked the entire time - around everyone there - and foregoing covering up outside the pool area. Her comfort being in that setting was more important to me than having an "everyone naked" nudist experience. So we talked about it; and she ensured to me that it made sense to her. Even when we got there I was very attentive and inquisitive as to her comfort level. To reassure me and acclimate herself to being seen naked, she decided to go for a naked walk around the resort and explore it. She stayed nude the entire rest of the day; and we've been returning to the resort regularly since. The point is: it was important to me that the choice be entirely hers. I consider myself lucky and appreciative of the fact that she has chosen to make nudism an "all nude" experience" of her own free will. It rarely pans out well anyway when women feel forced to be naked around a bunch of "strangers."
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    Bill
    Bill
    Apr 8, 2023
    [quote]Speaking of warm up, do you think global warming will encourage people to partially or fully abandon clothing, both as a response to rising temperatures as to reduce carbon emissions by reducing the manufacturing and launderings of clothing?[/quote] A global trend of warmer temperatures will also bring more dramatic weather patterns and probably massive shifts in ocean currents, which will likely make some parts of the world warmer in certain months, and some areas nearly unable to support increased nudism. This will mean we'll need to keep some form of covering close by for when the foul weather comes up suddenly. Heightened volatility of storms and weather events are one part of climate change, but sea level rise will force major populations away from coastal areas, where more people just so happen to live in the world. There is an immediate need to develop more innovative ways to control the waters which are already rising in these areas, considering increased change in ocean levels in the last 200 years in comparison to the slight shifts in the last few thousand years. It doesn't need to rain for the storm drains in cities like Miami, Florida to overflow. And regardless of these facts, the real estate prices keep rising in these areas. Maybe better to buy a nice boat than invest in land where land won't exist in forty years -- maybe? Florida in particular is in for a rude awakening in the next couple of generations, but coastal regions around the world will lose trillions of dollars in tourism as well as millions of acres.
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    Tom D
    Tom D
    Apr 8, 2023
    [quote]Speaking of warm up, do you think global warming will encourage people to partially or fully abandon clothing, both as a response to rising temperatures as to reduce carbon emissions by reducing the manufacturing and launderings of clothing? A global trend of warmer temperatures will also bring more dramatic weather patterns and probably massive shifts in ocean currents, which will likely make some parts of the world warmer in certain months, and some areas nearly unable to support increased nudism. This will mean we'll need to keep some form of covering close by for when the foul weather comes up suddenly. Heightened volatility of storms and weather events are one part of climate change, but sea level rise will force major populations away from coastal areas, where more people just so happen to live in the world. There is an immediate need to develop more innovative ways to control the waters which are already rising in these areas, considering increased change in ocean levels in the last 200 years in comparison to the slight shifts in the last few thousand years. It doesn't need to rain for the storm drains in cities like Miami, Florida to overflow. And regardless of these facts, the real estate prices keep rising in these areas. Maybe better to buy a nice boat than invest in land where land won't exist in forty years -- maybe? Florida in particular is in for a rude awakening in the next couple of generations, but coastal regions around the world will lose trillions of dollars in tourism as well as millions of acres.[/quote] Storm drains in coastal areas of NJ sometimes flow backward during high tides and winds also.
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