U saw a man at a nude beach wearing a penis ring. Any thoughts?

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  EarlD

  Dec 1, 2022

  [quote]clothesfreehome-- your "opinion" is more of an accusation that anyone that wears a cock ring or penis ring is wearing it for sexual pleasure. You have a right to your opinion.. no doubt, but throwing around the accusation that cock jewelry is solely for sexual purposes is high inaccurate. Do cock rings serve a purpose for sex, Yes. They help men maintain erections during sex.. but do other men wear it just as a piece of jewelry.. YES also. Do you condemn women's genital piercings and nipple piercing as well leading to the decline in nudist acceptance.. ?? How many men have you meet wearing cock rings or penis rings, socially, and asked them why they desire to wear such things..? Maybe they could educate you a bit more about it. Your emphasis on blaming men's desire for genital adornment and the decreasing of nudist acceptance holds no merit at all. Again, opinions are acceptable but judgement of others is not.[/quote] Not sure if you are addressing this to me cause that is not my username but on the off chance that you are all I can say is if you receive my opinion as a accusation that on you. I only have shared facts every definition and description of the use of cock rings is as a sexual device. What you are asking me or the average person who might venture on the a nude beach and see a guy walking around with cock to do it put aside every observed pattern and description of the usage of cock rings and go ask some guy why he wears one. Really? You whataboutism is fascinating since the thread is not about women so I will not address it. Finally if you want the fact and references for my belief that men who sexualize social nudity you must first attempt to stop throwing around opposite opinions without any proof or references.

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• ME

  Member

  Dec 1, 2022

  [quote]I am minding my business I shared my opinion the fact that you dont like it wont change that neither will you conflation of not sexualizing the whole human body which is a container for a whole person human being and sexualizing a body part that has a sexual function with a sexual device that has a sexual function. And through stupid boomer comments into that to suggest this is about age. Have you noticed how many old guys on this site profess to very genital jewelry. Oh by the what exactly is it that you ex pressing with your com ring wearing that I am stifling by sharing my opinion? What does is say to the world that you are expressing? Do share![/quote] The hilarious thing about this word salad is that you're an "editor". To answer your question, what am I expressing? About the same thing I express when I decide to wear a blue shirt instead of a red one; I like the way this looks and I choose to wear it. [quote] I only have shared facts every definition and description of the use of cock rings is as a sexual device.[/quote] Subjective Opinion != Fact You are so easily pressed. Can't wait for your next circular argument you'll use to try to standardize your narrow and obsolete perceptions.

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  StevieLorna

  Dec 1, 2022

  Red shirt blue shirt is irrelevant.

  Its a matter of perception. Every single man on the planet wears a shirt.

  Only a microscopic number wear cock rings.

  A shirt doesnt cover a what as seen by most as a sex organ

  A cock ring does

  A shirt is worn for warmth, protection from the sun and occasionally, modesty.

  A cock ring does none of those things.

  I believe a cock rings primary function is to, shout, hay everybody, have you seen my dick?

  Which on a nude beach, is a very silly thing to do.

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  EarlD

  Dec 1, 2022

  [quote]The hilarious thing about this word salad is that you're an "editor".To answer your question, what am I expressing? About the same thing I express when I decide to wear a blue shirt instead of a red one; I like the way this looks and I choose to wear it.You are so easily pressed. Can't wait for your next circular argument you'll use to try to standardize your narrow and obsolete perceptions.[/quote]
  
  I am easily pressed? Who is the one who cant help but try to diminish my opinion by not address the point but instead projecting personal put downs. You ignore all the stuff I have posted with or the actual statements made by talking about word salads etc maybe it is just too much depth. Sorry I didnt break it down more. But I digress. Where is you proof of obsolescence? What facts are you bringing to the table about men wearing cock rings in social nudism that suggests it is acceptable and in vogue.
  
  Now here's my editorial eye for you. Please explain how a person perspective can become obsolete? You know what is really sad about your weak attempt at a response. If you actually had a good point to make. Or any reasonable point at all. Your red shirt blue shirt silliness isn't even worth a response. Any thinking person knows that doesnt hold water. But anyway if you did have a point you would have made it but since you dont you resort to mud slinging. Rest assured though this is a pattern that is very common among those who believe as you. Your effort to gaslight will not work with me. Thomas Gray in his poem Ode on a Distant Prospect of Eton College (1742) says "Where ignorance is bliss it is folly to be wise" enjoy your state of bliss while wearing your cock ring.

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  StevieLorna

  Dec 1, 2022

  I think if one persons get rejected from attending a club for whatever reason he might project the death of naturism rather than accept hes just not they type of person the club is willing to engage with.

  To this person, its easy to call troll, to people who dont share his views.

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• EA

  

  EarlD

  Dec 1, 2022

  Yeah I saw that happen a couple yes back when someone posted on here that my resort/club was no longer accepting single men at a time when I and others who were single men were active there. It is a type of gaslighting that is very prominent online in nudism.

  It is also a good way to diminish other perspective because it creates a narrative that requires no evidence beyond an individual saying it is so. Something really popular in society today.

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• ME

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  Dec 2, 2022

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• ST

  

  StevieLorna

  Dec 2, 2022

  [quote][/quote] Absolutely love The Simpson, have you seen the episode where Ralph Wiggum sticks a Pez dispenser to his penis? It was next level hilarious.

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• EA

  

  EarlD

  Dec 2, 2022

  [quote]Absolutely love The Simpson, have you seen the episode where Ralph Wiggum sticks a Pez dispenser to his penis?It was next level hilarious.[/quote]
  
  I forgot about that character until you posted. Then I looked him up and think you may have made the right choice in response.
  
  [quote]lacks social skills and basic common sense (but he is a Viking when it comes to sleep). He often displays odd behavior and deliver odd pieces of dialogue. He is generally nice and well meaning, but his imaginary Leprechaun friend tells him to burn things. He is frequently seen picking his nose despite his doctor telling him that he won't have as many nose bleeds if he stopped. When he grows up, he wants to be a principal or a caterpillar.[/quote]
  
  It is a sad character based on the description which is how I feel about these folks inability to account for their behavior or engage in reasoned conversation.
  
  I was thinking Barney but I defer to your choice.

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  Gnomestradomus

  Dec 3, 2022

  I understand that point of view. I wonder what your thoughts are on piercings if they are ok or not? Ive heard of some resorts not allowing guest to have genital piercings while attending.

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  Gnomestradomus

  Dec 3, 2022

  I understand that point of view. I wonder what your thoughts are on piercings if they are ok or not? Ive heard of some resorts not allowing guest to have genital piercings while attending.

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  HDlonewolf

  Dec 4, 2022

  Steve Lorna...I respect your opinion even if I do not agree...I do not call you hilarious for your choices or call you out for your relationship status. I have been a nudist for over 38 yrs. Back then...if you saw someone with shaved genitals....it was thought that it was to only draw attention to that region...but it is now widely accepted and not seen as sexual. However, the sexual feeling of being clean shaven does heighten the pleasure for many reasons. It appears that you are drawing the relationship for single men to show off and draw attention to their genitals. Ok...we have ALL heard that you dont like them.. got it...umm...wat else do you have about the subject that has not been said....let it go now. You stated your opinion and are now argumentative...trying to sway others to agree with you. I do not appreciate your comments about what I am looking for...you have not spoken with me about it but find yourself to be the authority on the matter. I do wear rings but enjoy the feeling much as I enjoy shaving my pubic hair. It is a choice and not sexual. Yes, the rings can enhancement erections...when aroused.

  The OP was asking for the opinion...you gave yours and more. Now let it go

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  StevieLorna

  Dec 4, 2022

  [quote]Steve Lorna...I respect your opinion even if I do not agree...I do not call you hilarious for your choices or call you out for your relationship status. I have been a nudist for over 38 yrs. Back then...if you saw someone with shaved genitals....it was thought that it was to only draw attention to that region...but it is now widely accepted and not seen as sexual. However, the sexual feeling of being clean shaven does heighten the pleasure for many reasons. It appears that you are drawing the relationship for single men to show off and draw attention to their genitals. Ok...we have ALL heard that you dont like them.. got it...umm...wat else do you have about the subject that has not been said....let it go now. You stated your opinion and are now argumentative...trying to sway others to agree with you. I do not appreciate your comments about what I am looking for...you have not spoken with me about it but find yourself to be the authority on the matter. I do wear rings but enjoy the feeling much as I enjoy shaving my pubic hair. It is a choice and not sexual. Yes, the rings can enhancement erections...when aroused. The OP was asking for the opinion...you gave yours and more. Now let it go[/quote] Quite a lot to unpack here but Ill give it a go. An opinion was asked for I gave one, I dont require anyone to respect it. Thats not why it was given. If I do something ridiculous or funny, please, tell me. Id want to know. The shaving thing, yeah I agree, it wasnt fashionable 38 years ago, I dont agree you wearing washers on your cock is you being a trailblazing fashionista. Wait 38 years and ask me again. Ive never said I dont like cock rings or the people who wear them, yes I think they look ridiculous but what a naturist chooses to were is their business and I would defend their rights to wear whatever. You are absolutely correct I dont know what your motives are. Until you posted on here I was not aware of you at all or any other posts you have left for me to form an opinion. People lie about the reasons they do things, thats what annoys me about genital augmentation debates, and debates continue after you give an opinion. Ill move on now.

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  SmoothHouston78

  Dec 4, 2022

  I have a Prince Albert and luckily have not had any issues with not being welcomed to nudist resorts. However if that does happen, its easy to take the ring out

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  EarlD

  Dec 4, 2022

  [quote]I have a Prince Albert and luckily have not had any issues with not being welcomed to nudist resorts. However if that does happen, its easy to take the ring out[/quote] Wow what a reasonable response. Thank you for sharing could it be this simple.

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  EarlD

  Dec 4, 2022

  [quote]I understand that point of view. I wonder what your thoughts are on piercings if they are ok or not? Ive heard of some resorts not allowing guest to have genital piercings while attending.[/quote] I guess I am a bit of a minimalist when it comes to naturism naked without much adornment is my preference. I dont even wear shoes most of the time. I think its funny that nudist get dressed up to go to parties since we are fighting for the freedom to be clothes freeO but hey whatever floats your boat. On occasion I wear an ankle bracelet. So an excess of metal on ones genitals in a naturist setting dont make much sense to me. But to each his own. As to resorts every resort has its own policy some forbid completely others allow minimal some dont care as long as you dont flaunt it. I have seen the gamut at the club/resort where I have membership especially when we have big events. Thats usually when the swingers role in looking for fresh sex connections. I think it last time I saw a couple with with multiple genital piercing and when the walked around the pool area it made quite a racket with all the metal clinking. But it seemed that was the point to call attention to themself. Dunno if that helps at all but that is my experience.

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  MichaelOriginal Poster

  Dec 5, 2022

  Today I wore my black rubber cock ring at Apollo Beach. I got a few glances from men and women but no one said anything to me. I like the feel of it an I will admit a small part of me is an exhibitionist.

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  EarlD

  Dec 5, 2022

  [quote]I like the feel of it an I will admit a small part of me is an exhibitionist.[/quote] Well at least you are being honest.

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  MichaelOriginal Poster

  Dec 5, 2022

  Being nude is very honest.

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  EarlD

  Dec 5, 2022

  [quote]Being nude is very honest.[/quote] Naked people tell lies just as much as clothed people I was referring to you transparency regarding an exhibitionist. If I had said that was the intention behind you OP all kinds of people would hav just down my throat though that was my suspicion all along but now it has been said.

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• ME

  Member

  Dec 19, 2022

  [quote]Steve Lorna...I respect your opinion even if I do not agree...I do not call you hilarious for your choices or call you out for your relationship status. I have been a nudist for over 38 yrs. Back then...if you saw someone with shaved genitals....it was thought that it was to only draw attention to that region...but it is now widely accepted and not seen as sexual. However, the sexual feeling of being clean shaven does heighten the pleasure for many reasons. It appears that you are drawing the relationship for single men to show off and draw attention to their genitals. Ok...we have ALL heard that you dont like them.. got it...umm...wat else do you have about the subject that has not been said....let it go now. You stated your opinion and are now argumentative...trying to sway others to agree with you. I do not appreciate your comments about what I am looking for...you have not spoken with me about it but find yourself to be the authority on the matter. I do wear rings but enjoy the feeling much as I enjoy shaving my pubic hair. It is a choice and not sexual. Yes, the rings can enhancement erections...when aroused. The OP was asking for the opinion...you gave yours and more. Now let it go[/quote] (Clapping my hands...)

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  StevieLorna

  Jan 18, 2023

  [quote]If that nudist loves to wear one, let him. why should he think what others think. Afterall people will judge, because they don't know what they are missing on.[/quote] I dont wear one, what am I missing on?

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  Rich

  Apr 12, 2024

  Nice thoughts, I agree with all your comments.

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  R.B

  Apr 12, 2024

  Honestly I dont think it belongs on a public beach or any other public places.

  Huge fan of dickrings myself, but it belongs in a sexual context.

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