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Why is sexual orintation a question in profiles?

Posted Aug 9, 2010

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rusty62Original Poster
Aug 9, 2010

In my understanding of nude recreation - we are not here to flaunt sexuality. Why does it need to be a profile question? Strikes me as a little creepy and one of the reasons I have not opted for paid membership here in an otherwise good nudist organization online. Really I do not want to know who is what sexual orintation. I am not go looking for sexual information when I am in a nudist enviroment. Furthrmore I have a safe and balanced sexual life in the company of my loved one and do not look anywhere for extra cirricular gratification, here, my home club, work, other personal groups and organizations. Why should I be intrested here?

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  • SO
    Soupie
    Oct 26, 2012

    Well now, that's what I would have said to ManaTree as well.  But in your case, that dreamed has died.

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  • ME
    Member
    Oct 28, 2012

    I'm new here, only joined a couple of days ago.I put myself down as bisexual, was more surprised by the income question.Later I thought that perhaps people would associate bisexual with perv.  So, I went back and left it blank later on my first day.A straight person wouldn't make a second guess.Then reading the word 'flaunt' somewhat proves me initial thoughts. When I think about nude socializing, I would prefer to be around guys. Yet again not in a sexual way... I'd just feel more at ease I guess.  I guess I don't have an answer. I don't feel a need to connect with any sexuality so I guess leaving it blank works for me.  Hey, that might change.  But it's blank mostly so I'm not pigeon holed right out of the gate.

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  • ME
    Member
    Oct 31, 2012
    [quote]@ zack - thankfully I have not recieved any flack over being bi on this site, just an endless amount of men asking to cyber.  And to op, it's your own mindset that disturbs you, as is evident with your word choices like 'flaunt'. Answering a question is not 'flaunting' and YOU have to go out of your way and read a persons profile to even see what questions we have answered and how. It just sounds like you are insecure with yourself or intolerent of others. I can't speak to the creators of this website, but if I were to hazard a guess, the question is there for SOCIAL NETWORKING :P You can put down if you are here for dating, friends, etc. Questions help others get to know you better, find common ground and common interests, whatever the goal is. If there was a question "Do you ride bicycles" and I answered yes, would you accuse people of "flaunting" their liking to ride bicycles? Lol, shows how silly the OP post is. If you don't want to read a persons profile, just don't read it :D[/quote]^^^. I like.  :D
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  • EV
    EvansBetterHalf
    Nov 19, 2012
    Bump for a garbage dump
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  • If you Google "Nudist Dating" you will get about 4,010,000 results (0.25 seconds)
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